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Hi, my fellow pals of children of divorce. How have you been doing? Have you been eating and sleeping well? Are you doing well? I hope you are.
Did it get better, somehow? Does it ever get better? I hope it did; and continues to always do.
You deserve your own happiness, and your own world. You are free to choose yourself and to become your highest being, your best and kindest version of yourself.
No matter how hard it gets, it always gets easier and better too, somehow... only if you focus on your progress and betterment. Let go of that person of your past. Let go of the ghosts of your past. They don’t have a place in your present life anymore 🤍
(Also, don’t you think we need to stop identifying ourselves as a child of divorce? It sounds weird and the pain is too old for that.)
You are so strong, I hope you know that. And after reading this, I hope you can accept that. Sometimes when you tell yourself that you are strong, or when people tell you that, you don’t believe them or yourself. So I hope you have the courage to believe that you are strong and I am immensely grateful of how strong you are as a person.
Remember, you are never alone. Things happened this way to allow you to become your best self and to send you to places so unimaginably beautiful you could cry just thinking about it. You are loved, without having to ask for anyone’s permission.
You’ll do great.
But most importantly, you’ll be fine.
You’ll be fine.
#child of divorce#divorced parents#children of divorce#surviving divorce#broken family#dysfunctional family#blended family#i am sorry your parents are probably a duckhead#you don’t deserve any of this and none of this was your fault#you can grow to become an even more beautiful flower#let’s grow through what we go through#we can do it together 🤍#letter to my younger self#letter to my future self#letter to my self#self respect#self love#self appreciation#positivity#recovery#divorce#absent parents
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If I’m Going To Be Honest
If I’m going to be honest, I stopped writing my blog because I felt I had failed all my followers. My blog was supposed to be about how I was thriving at 50 as I prepared to divorce my high school sweetheart husband. I was healthy, I felt true love for myself. My blogs were fun, I was fun, men were fun, dating was fun…LIFE WAS FUN PERIOD!… until it wasn’t. I thought I had it all figured out, in…
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they should be entitled to financial compensation i think
#wild life smp#double life smp#trafficblr#life series#martyn littlewood#impulsesv#traffic smp#traffic series#traffic life#life smp#life series smp#wlsmp#life smp series#wlsmp meme#dlsmp#traffic life smp#divorce quartet#they didnt survive actually. but. yk#also bigb etho and ren weren’t invited they weren’t there the WHOLE season
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Let’s talk about jockeys, jockeys are great. In his youth Sandy Hawley (Canadian, shown here in 1970s) was that unusual thing of being a good-looking male jockey who was also successful at horse racing. Most jockeys necessarily crackle with powerful short king energy, but young Hawley also understood about having interesting hair.
A nice thing is when famous jockeys are still alive and relatively uninjured. He is still alive and active in horse stuff, along with his current wife, Kaoru Tsuchiya, who was the first female jockey to race in Japan.
This is nice in a sport that is risky, tense and hard on jockeys.
#horse racing is a totally normal sport in which the people riding the horses have this awful time#most legendary jockeys are just like: emerged from womb aged 12 smoking a cigarette#immediately began falling off horses. died several times. made entirely out of titanium.#divorced three times and had fifteen fingers and an ear eaten by horses (spat out fingers and ate them again)#crushed to death in a bar fight. weighed 65 pounds. lived entirely on alcohol and a single grape.#survived by 17 children all jockeys.#absolutely hated horses and died instantly after being removed from them.#anyway! sandy hawley! alive and a little bit normal!#🤏#🏇
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If I’m Going To Be Honest
If I’m going to be honest, I stopped writing my blog because I felt I had failed all my followers. My blog was supposed to be about how I was thriving at 50 as I prepared to divorce my high school sweetheart husband. I was healthy, I felt true love for myself. My blogs were fun, I was fun, men were fun, dating was fun…LIFE WAS FUN PERIOD!… until it wasn’t. I thought I had it all figured out, in…
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government assigned roomate AU
#ethan winters#leon kennedy#lethan#chris redfield#rosemary winters#rose winters#rebhfun#re8#resident evil village#resident evil#roomate AU#resident evil 8#resident evil fanart#mia and ethan r divorced#after re8 ethan survives and is now under chris and HWS protection#they dont work for the BSAA anymore and chris needs someone to monitor ethan since hes technically classfied as a bioweapon now#ethan does NAWT wanna see chris currently so chris has to find someone else to do it and comes to leon#ethan basically lives like hes on house arrest and can only go out shopping if leon accompanies him#they r both unhappy#at first....#giggles#they live in a house or something and sleep in two seperate rooms#chris provides funds or whatever#but leon eventually also starts paying out of his own pocket#mia pays child support and i like to think shes loaded with all the money she made from the connections
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fellas. fellas. listen. qui-gon does express affection towards obi-wan, he just does it in the divorced dad way.
that's his love language, despite never having been married, divorced or had a kid.
#having to be reminded the child need to be fed clothed and watered cause he survives off just tea? yeah. divorced dad behaviour.#no idea how to say i love you so just hands the child random trinkets (rocks)#forgetting how old the kid is and accidentally exposing them to or taking them along on adventures that they're definitely too young for#i do think obi wan mentions he likes one food when he's 13 and that's all qui gon feeds him forever#trust me i am the leading source on this my father has been divorced THREE TIMES#qui gon jinn#qui gon and obi wan#obi wan kenobi#star wars
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[When Aziraphale returns] Aziraphale: Oh Crowley I find that place completely unbearable. No plush armchairs, no old books, no sushi, no music, no plays, no tea, and most importantly, no YOU, Crowley. Oh, what a grave mistake I've made leaving you. It's dreadfully dull there with everything so white. Since I've left, my thoughts have been consumed by you, my dear. It's been a nightmare to endure, and I couldn't stand another second there. Crowley: Crowley: Angel you've been gone for two hours
#Aziraphale: NO SUSHI CROWLEY#HOW WILL I EVER SURVIVE WITHOUT IT#NO SUSHI#Oh also you i guess#good omens#incorrect good omens#neil gaiman#anthony j crowley#ineffable husbands#aziraphale#david tennant#michael sheen#aziracrow#good omens 2#good omens season 2#good omens spoilers#incorrect good omens quotes#good omens fandom#good omens s2#ineffable divorce
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118 daily drabble (day 41; hostage)
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notes: divorced bucktommy absurdity
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the fifth time
The lead gunman closes his eyes and rubs his forehead. "Can you two please shut up? You're hostages, why the fuck are you talking so much?"
"Hey, buddy," Tommy snaps. "I'm a guy who's trying to divorce this asshole to my right—"
"Left," Eddie says. "I'm here for moral support."
"...On my left, and you had to take the whole building hostage, you John McClane wannabe motherfucker. Now you're giving him hope that we can't finalize our divorce because it's fate, and we're gonna get sucked right back into—"
"I never gave up on us, Tommy," Buck interrupts.
Tommy sighs and pretends Athena isn't slowly creeping around the desk obscuring her from the gunmen. "Please just shoot me."
#911 fic#bucktommy fic#118dailydrabble#drabble#my writing#my fic#evan buckley#tommy kinard#eddie diaz#athena grant#yes buck and tommy needed a third to attend their divorce hearing what of it#tell me i'm wrong#don't worry everyone survives and they have to watch bucktommy hump desperately on the courtroom floor#suddenly whatever the gunmen wanted was Not Worth It#5+1 divorce (118dailydrabble)
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You expect me to be normal? About them??
*points to Madara being dissected by Tobirama for over a week, then later when Madara impales Tobirama with multiple black rods to keep him exactly where he wants him.*
#These two deserve each other because no one else should ever be subjected to the horrors that these two have brought to the party#They're so fucked up your honor#grant them their divorce for the millionth time#and then marry them once more for the millionth and one time#only the strong survive#which is why each of these men have died more than once#I'll spit on their graves and then watch them come back to make out only to fist fight in the streets of Konoha right after#Madatobi#mdtb#Senju Tobirama#Uchiha Madara#Tobirama#Madara
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You will never understand the impact on the manhwa community this series had at it's prime. It was revolutionary! It was insane! It was ahead of it's time! It's one of those "You had to be there" events!
No because in this manhwa:
The fl and og!fl actually got along and were great friends with no drama
The 2 prince brothers actually cared for each other and there was no fight for the throne
No love triangle between the two princes and the fl just wholesome married couple and siblings in law shenanigans
Great friendships not just for the fl but for the ml too the whole story just screams found family it's not only focused on romance
Fl actually cooperates with ml from the begining and becomes a double spy!
Every character was so interesting and got you intrigued no one was one dimensional every character was well constructed and had a personality
This is a cult manhwa. Everyone who is like me and read it while it was still ongoing from the begining know just how amazing this manhwa was at the time!
#survive as the hero's wife#the villainess wants a divorce#manhwa#isekai manhwa#villainess manhwa#manhwa recommendation
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2024 Recap: It was bad! 👍
#consistently the worst my mental health has been since 2019/early 2020 when i was going through the divorce#and yes small joys etc but. i think this attitude has twisted into something where i feel like the small joys are all i'll ever get#and just generally accept that i'm going to be miserable#hopefully figuring this out can be the impetus to change some things and make progress#(unless we have to move in which case the only feasible new years resolution is to Survive)#but man. it's been a rough time.#it takes such courage not to turn to stone
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Canonically speaking, jc' reaction to someone he doesn't like/has strong negative feelings towards, because that person was a jerk to his sister, is to regulate his emotions according to how his sister feels. In a jyl lives au, after wwx's return, canon jc is going to his sister, saying something like: 'while I think we should throw at least a cup of tea at him because he left us you and a-ling like that, it's your choice, jin zixuan was your husband. What are we feeling now, jiejie?'
#I was reading a jyl live and in the notes the author wrote: 'I made jc & wwx meeting as painful as possible'. Why would you do that lol. jyl#jzx's wife- is right there. shouldn't she the one to be mad? no obv. she says to jc to back off and stop being a jerk lol#canon jc rebuild his sect and co-raised his wonderful nephew. Without no one but himself. A jc with his sister by is side is the healthiest#dude out there. The fact imo it's that most of jyl lives au aren't about jyl#Her life wasn't about her. Her childhood wasn't about her. Her death wasn't about her#Let at least her survival be about her lmao#jzx should divorce fanon jyl tbh and marry jc lol#Imo it boils down to people thinking that be mad about a loved one's death/lying make you the devil#Which is a bit strange#Or maybe it's that in a jyl lives au you kinda have to acknowledge how hurtful wwx's actions were. A crime in this fandom.#mar!nonsense
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WHAT DO YOU MEAN THEY TALKED TO EACHOTHER IN A POOL IN SINGAPORE WHEN THEY WERE GONNA BECOME TEAMMATES. WHAT DO YOU MEAN CARLOS SAID CHARLES IS ONE OF HIS FAVOURITE TEAMMATES HE'S EVER HAD. WHAT DO YOU MEAN WHEN ASKED WHAT WILL CHARLES MISS THE MOST ABOUT CARLOS, HE SAID JUST CARLOS THE PERSON. WHAT DO YOU MEAN???????????????????
#THESE LOVERBOY FUCKERS DRIVE ME UP THE FUCKING WALL#THIS FEELS LIKE MY PARENTS ARE DIVORCING#i physically cannot do this#i don't think you guys understand#i need them to be their silly goofy self#and push eachother around while they giggle like teenage girls#fuck ferrari for separating my parents#fuck this shit#i'm not gonna survive abu dhabi#charlos#c2#I'm gonna kms#carlos sainz#charles leclerc#cs55#cl16#formula 1#formula one#ferrari formula 1
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HELLO??? THIS PHOTO???
the holding hands. the smiles. kevin reaching up so high just to grip nicos shoulder. i love them.
#first chance i get to check twitter after the race and i see this. they’re so insane#audi please don’t divorce them#i won’t survive and neither will them without their emotional support teammate#f1#kevin magnussen#nico hulkenberg#haas f1 team#hulknussen#haasbands#mexico gp 2024
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netflix trying to repurpose their austrian gp footage into norstappen gossip girl arc after following williams around all weekend for the nonexistent sargebon divorce drama
#well i mean. they are divorcing but the drama isn’t there#formula 1#formula one#f1#norstappen#lando norris#max verstappen#drive to survive#sargebon#austrian gp 2024
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